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A Self Issue is a rejection of anything about
self…
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When one is ashamed of his/her own age / race / height
/ nose / eyes / etc
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When one believes that he / she is unattractive
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When one rejects his / her own gender
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When a woman believes that she is not woman enough
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When a man believes that he is not man enough
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General Information about the Self Issue…
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The Self Issue can exist in a person - mildly, moderately
or severely
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The Self Issue is a human issue. It is not a homosexual
issue
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One could be having a Self Issue without even being
aware of it
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Just because one has a Self Issue – it does not
mean he / she is gay
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Every Self Issue will surely bring challenges into
a person’s life
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No one is born with any Self Issue
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Ones Self Issue is the consequences of a certain experience
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The Self Issue can be increased, be stagnant or be
resolved
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Some Self Issues can trigger one into homosexuality
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The Self Issues that triggers homosexuality…
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A Self Issue towards ones appearance
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A Self Issue towards ones own gender
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Some symptoms of these Self Issues…
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Appearance
- Does little or nothing about his / her own appearance
- Does not usually talk about his / her own appearance
- Constantly admiring / talking about others of the same gender –
who are perceived as attractive to the admirer
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Gender
- Admiring others of the opposite gender – wanting to be like
them
- Does not enjoy own genders clothing – prefers opposite or
unisex clothing
- Not appreciating the characteristic of self that represents his
/ her gender
- Male: Facial Hair / Body Hair / etc
- Female: Breast / Long Hair / etc
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How do these Self Issues lead one to homosexuality…?
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Appearance
- Admiration (want to be like him / her) → Platonic Attraction
(want to be with him / her) → Sexual Attraction (want to be ONE
with him / her)
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Gender
- When one rejects his / her own gender – he /she will NATURALLY
embrace the other gender
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Examples for the occurrence of these Self Issues…
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Appearance
- Being told that he / she is unattractive
- Observing peers of the sane gender being praise for their appearance
while one was never praised
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Gender
- Expected to be the opposite gender by parents
- No good role models of ones own gender
- Growing up believing that ones own gender is inferior
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Steps of resolving these Self Issues…
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Appearance
- Counseling – Change of mindset
- Begin to put effort in improving ones appearance (dressing better
, exercising & etc)
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Gender
- Counseling – Change of mindset
- Begin to learn the beauty of ones own gender
