Sexuality

• Sexual Organ (Male / Female / Hermaphrodite )
• Sexual Orientation (Heterosexual / Bisexual / Homosexual / Asexual)
• Sexual Lifestyle (Heterosexual / Bisexual / Homosexual / Celibate)

Sexual Organ

• Not a choice
• Determined by the chromosomal complement – whether XX (female) or XY (male)
• Primary determination for one’s gender

Sexual Orientation

• Not a choice
• Developed at puberty (a natural time to venture into romance / sex)
• Hormonal change at puberty / menopause / etc affects Sexual Drive /libido and not Sexual Orientation
• Premature Sexual Orientation (direct or indirect exposure to Sexual Activities as a child)
• Nurture (not nature)
• The bible does not mention / condemn any kind of Sexual Orientation
• Changeable (through resolving of issues, learning / unlearning, sexual experiences, influence & etc). Naturally moving from one Sexual Orientation to another
• Modifiable (the intensity of the current Sexual Orientation can be decreased or increased – mainly depending on the lifestyle)
• One’s Sexual Orientation is in the soul (mind, will emotions)

Sexual Lifestyle

• It is a choice (“Natural” / Forced / Redeemed)
• Normally one chooses his/her Sexual Lifestyle according to his/her Sexual Orientation
• The bible condemns the Homosexual / Bisexual Lifestyle

What may not part of one’s Sexuality

• Androgynous (Appearance Statement. It is not necessary a Sexuality Statement)
• Homophyllic (Love is not always connected to sex & romance)
• Metrosexual / Fetrosexual (Masculine and Feminine sides in every human being)

Sharing Session…

Are you clear about your…

1. Sexual Orientation? 2. Sexual Lifestyle?