VMEET 3 - HOMOSEXUAL ORIENTATION:
 
 
 
 
 
 

Dated : March 2008

  • Sexual Orientation
    • Is your Sexual Orientation a choice? No
    • When does one develop his/her original Sexual Orientation? At Puberty
    • Hormonal change does not affect ones Sexual Orientation but it does affect one’s what? Sexual Drive
    • What is a premature Sexual Orientation? It is a Sexual Orientation that exist before puberty due to direct / indirect exposure to sexual activities
    • Is Sexual Orientation Nurture or Nature? Nurture
    • Does the bible mention / condemn any kind of Sexual Orientation? No
    • Is Sexual Orientation changeable? Yes
    • Is Sexual Orientation modifiable? Yes
  • The Homosexual Orientation…
    • Is one of the FOUR common types of human Sexual Orientation
    • Like all Sexual Orientation – it is not a choice
    • Like all Sexual Orientation – it is nurture and not nature
    • Like all Sexual Orientation – it is changeable (through resolving of issues, learning / unlearning, sexual experiences, influence & etc).
    • Like all Sexual Orientation – it is modifiable (the intensity of ones homosexual orientation can be decreased or increased)
    • Like all Sexual Orientation – it is in the soul (mind, will & emotions)
  • Trigger Issues (Primary causes)…
  • The Self Issue (Rejection of one’s own gender /& looks)
  • The Vacuum Issue (A severe need to be loved & to love people of the same gender)
  • The Barrier Issue (An inability to look at people of the opposite gender as romantic / sexual partners)
  • Contributors (Secondary causes)…
  • Premature Sexual Orientation
  • Addiction (to sex)
  • Living in a pro-gay environment
  • Coming from a non-religious background
  • Lack of healthy heterosexual role models
  • Being close to pro-gay individuals
  • Belonging to one-gender school

*Sharing Session…

  • Are you clear about your own Sexual Orientation? Care to share?
  • Have you experienced a modified Sexual Orientation?
  • Have you experienced a changed Sexual Orientation?